Well the wind is gusting outside ---- so after a day of clouds ---- wind ---- sun ---- rain ----- sun ------ wind ---- clouds ----- rain ----- like that ---- I thought I'd stay put for a bit and update you all about my progress with setting up a TCF (The Compassionate Friends) group here in Auckland.
After corresponding with Lesley from the South Island who publishes the NZ newsletter, I decided to try to start a group here. I was surprised that there is no group even near Auckland, which is the city with the largest population in NZ. So I introduced myself to the office folks at a local church --- All Saints --- an Anglican church here in Auckland. Joanne, the wonderful office manager, connected me with a woman who coordinates grief groups throughout Auckland. She presented the idea to the head folks and got the approval to go forward with setting up a meeting between me and the vicar and a grief facilitator at the church. They totally supported the idea of TCF and were comfortable with having me facilitate a group. So we scheduled meetings in, reserved a room, and even reserved the old church for the candle lighting service. The last bit was how to publicize. So a meeting was set up with a local Times reporter who interviewed all of us on our specific grief groups. The article will be in the paper this week with an accompanying photo. And voila ---- our first TCF group will be October 14th. The Compassionate Friends is a support group for parents who have lost children. Our group in Aurora has been a lifeline for David and I and I would love to help other parents going through this kind of grieving and be part of a group while living here in Auckland.
The old Selwyn Church is a historical building. It was built in 1847 and was the first building erected in Auckland. It is the second oldest wooden church in NZ. It will be an awesome place for the candle lighting ceremony. The worldwide candle lighting takes place every year on the 2nd Sunday of December. This year it will be Dec. 8th at 7PM. "As candles burn down in one time zone, they are lighted in the next, creating a 24 hour wave of light that encircles the globe." The first time zone to begin the wave of lights is NZ. It is a wonderful way to honor our children.